Are You a Networking Nightmare?
More than ever, networking has become an essential skill for every business person. Taking the time to meet others in your industry and discover ways to help them and how they can help you can be both rewarding and lucrative. Unfortunately, not everyone has learned how to network effectively, and yes, many out there are downright networking nightmares.
Pandemic aside, the basic "rules" of networking have remained the same.
Are you a networking nightmare? Ask yourself the following questions:
Do you forget to keep someone who has given you a reference in the loop?
Are you neglectful in saying thank you when someone gives you a reference?
Are you slow to follow up on introductions?
Are you reluctant to reciprocate and give leads because you’re waiting for your contacts to specifically ask?
Do you have difficulty in sharing introductions?
If you’ve answered yes to any of these questions, you need to polish your networking skills.
The art of networking requires much more than eating a muffin at a networking breakfast meeting or Zoom call. You need to know how to effectively communicate with others, build strong relationships, and make the most out of online and in-person networking opportunities. No, it’s not easy, and it’s certainly time consuming, too. But, the benefits of successful networking can be instrumental in growing your business.
How do you transform yourself from a networking nightmare into a networking pro? Here are some straightforward ways to help you improve your networking image.
You won’t keep a contact for long if you’re not showing your appreciation for their efforts to help you. If someone has given you a lead or valuable information, say “thank you” in a big way. Write a hand-written note. Send a donation to the charity of their choice. An email “thank you” is weak and doesn’t really cut it when the person has gone out of their way to be helpful to you.
Think Out of the Box
Don’t wait for someone to ask you for a specific referral. Be proactive. Mention that you have an interesting person for them to meet. Communicate the synergies that can be shared. Introduce influencers to other influencers. No, they might not be the end person who uses the product or service, but they can introduce the person to possible end-users.
With online networking sites and emails, it’s so much easier than it used to be to introduce others. Use technology to your advantage and encourage those around you to do the same.
Follow Up and Follow Through
Establish a time frame to follow up with new contacts and follow through with helping others. If possible, it should never take longer than 24 hours to get back in touch with someone. This is particularly true for email and phone introductions which can get lost in the shuffle very quickly.
Small things for sure, but the kind of actions that will move you up the networking food chain. Would you like to network with me? Send me an email and we can schedule a call to connect.